Marriage Speedbump

So the past couple weeks have been a little rocky. My wife who accepts my unique quarks got a little overloaded. For the most part she's never been against my eclectic habits but she's never encouraged it. I would love the idea that she did, but that's not the case. In the past 2 1/2 years we've been together her method to dealing with my habits was to ignore it. Then last week things came to the brim and she finally spoke her mind. She only loves me when I'm not dressed up and she isn't sure she can be with a man that crossdresses? It hit me pretty hard because she never complained that it bothered her. We didn't know if this was the end of our marriage. It certainly felt that way. The biggest problem was she didn't understand why I would want to dress this way. I needed to get through to her that what I do isn't bad and every time I'd tried nothing would get through to her. In our long somber talk I mentioned a book that might be able to do that. However I only read the descriptions of it with great reviews. Fortunately it was good choice, because for the most part this trial has passed it's volatile stage.

My Husband Betty defused a scary moment for us and opened new communications. We still remain as a couple and for those "ladies" out there expressing the joys of a girlfriend like relationship with your wives, please understand that is not us. Our bond is in the traditional sense. I Tarzan, You Jane with just the occasional Tarzania swinging by.